There’s an erroneous belief firmly entrenched in the minds of many folks who hate to give a speech.  They’re convinced the audience is there to judge them and find them wanting.  They’re sure they’ll forget something important or say something bass-ackwards, garble a sentence, turn red from embarrassment, speak too fast or too slow, and generally show that they’re totally lacking in confidence or competence.  They endure hot flashes, cold sweats, upset stomachs, the shakes, and can’t wait to get it over with.                                               

            Flash!  It’s not true.  The audience is not waiting for....